Stark Ravings

We talk abt guys being too possessive. When they're in a relationship, that is. I've been told before that, possessivesness stems from the guy having a lack of confidence in himself. Thats why he's so afraid to lose his girlfriend. And that if he felt higher of himself, he wouldn't have to worry abt his girlfriend finding a better catch. He's so darn worried to the extent that he may not allow his girlfriend to talk to guys, touch guys, and may get very agitated when she does. I wonder if thats the right thing to do.

I've a girlfriend who has a bf whose just like that. She's attractive; sporting and beautiful. It is quite inevitable that guys are slobbering at her feet for her number or a date out. Instead of abiding her bf's "rules", she is out playing and having fun/flings with the guys. Apparently this obviously is a failed consequence of possessivesness. The more restricted the girl is, the more she wants to venture out and break free from the cage she's been put in. Especially since the girl is attractive and practically has the ability to turn men into toys; a game for her to play. Men are wrapped around her fingers and right now, she's losing time for her girlfriend too; me.

I sidetrack. I've told her many times to stop her nonsense. But at the same time, whats wrong with doing all that? Thats what youth is all about. Youth's not gonna last forever. Its the time that we're to treasure. Its the time to go out and have fun. Rather than settle down and stick to one loyal boyfriend. Knowing that you've got many guys having you on their thoughts, you ought to be proud of yourself and cherishing that gift you've been blessed with. =)

to that girlfriend (i believe you know its you) : Babe, do what you think is right. I don't blame you for searching for the right one. I'm behind you yah. Looking forward to hanging out with you again! You understand me best. haha =)