All guys who club are players. Without a doubt. I don't even hesitate to say that. I used to think it was 90% of the guys. Now i believe its 100%. Even if they weren't players, they'll get influenced to be one. Its ineveitable. Sad, i know. Though Jason disagreed with me profusely on this, I stick by my stand.

When they're young they're all sincere and true about loving girls ( i shan't use the term 'women' cos im talking abt young guys here). Their perception of girls is probably the one-sided overwhelming one. About how oh-so beautiful and wonderful girls are. And how they should worship them as soon as one girl comes along in their life cos its the first girl they've ever got to date.

But as soon they grow up and have experienced clubbing, they would meet girls who ARE willin to flirt and allow guys to touch them all over. They would come to realise that you CAN have such fun and priviledge with just one night. Thats when they will believe girls are cheap easy. UGH!

They would stereotype and think that ALL girls are cheap and easy. How many times have my girfriends dated a guy and have the impression he could be serious, only to realise that he's not? Countless. At a club, the guy gets to touch and in a way dominate the girl. The guy, being a player, is just out to have fun that night. Trust me he won't even ask for the girl's number after the fun night of "taking advantage" of her body. Even if he DOES ask for her number, its probably just so he can have more fun playing with her for..2 days? When they meet up he won't stop trying to grope the girl because the only thing on his mind is SEX. So, he'll either lose interest in this particular "species" if she doesn't give in, or begin to feel the girl's either too sticky/petty/pretty/ugly..the list goes on. And he'll allow them to lose contact just like that. They'll believe that with their experience, they can easily a better/another girl anyway. The guys think they've overpowered the feminine side. They'd treat girls like crap. i.e. f**k her then ditch her. GROSS.

On the contrary, I know some guys who club who aren't players; Yisheng, Patrick.. lol. i guess thats the 0.0001%? lol. Kudos to them. :)

Anyway, I've established a wishlist. LOL. which is something i DON'T really wanna establish. After all its a wishlist. Get it? Wishes never come true. Here it is anyway. Though my birthday isn't anytime soon..............................

1) a new skirt
2) mac foundation
3) Red Earth Secret Potion
3) a mini cardigan
4) please please some new tops. desperately.
5) please please please grant me knowledge and the ability to pass my coming exams.

I was with michelle the day before and she really amused me with her silly mistakes. She thought Retro meant cool. She used it wrongly, naturally, and i corrected her. Elaine immediately asked if she's been saying retro as cool all along. And the response was, yes. =.=
HAHA and she continously blabbered wrong words. the wrong pronounciation. She said elbow as ankle and didn't realise she's said the wrong thing. When it was clearly incorrect!
It doesn't stop there. She said 'succofate' as suffocate. And 'ccihups' as hiccups. LOL

New skin! haha. Wanted something simpler. I found the image and hosted it on my own. had to adjust some stuff too. T'was tiring! lol. anyway, now my tagboard isn't bugged anymore! =DD that avoids dino from tagging similar tags. =p

Forgot to add that last night on the dancefloor, some guy stepped on my toe!! which is already-abt-to-be-ingrown. AHHHH FUG MAN. it BLED and became worse, apparently. Now the meat covers my nail again. And that guy who trodded on my toe happened to be the friend of a guy who tried to hit on elaine. But they stormed off as soon as Bryan, Elaine's bf came along and hugged her tightly, squeezing her..okay shan't go into details. LOL. Well at least the guy apologised and held my arm when I staggered in pain.

My sis and I made pancakes earlier. =D She bought raisins, coloured sprinkles, strawberry topping and of course, the pancake mix. It turned out yummy! mmm thinking about it makes me crave for more. lol. Noor had pancakes for dinner too. And baked beans. Says he cooked them. Innovative huh? Ohyah Jason, in case you're curious. My dinner WASN'T enjoyable. It was horridly plain. Ugh. okay I shan't complain. the maid's new. lol.

I went for the treetop walk ytd! It was quite fun. haha.. the scenery is great and the weather's just nice. cos it just rained. weeee haha. This is definitely something new for me. then again, how often does anyone these days go out in the woods for a walk? lol

nice huh? its so freshly green!

there were monkeys around. we had to walk right past them. haha. the frightening part was that the parents kept warning the monkeys might "attack" us. instead, as soon as we approached they all scooted off. =.=

the pathway at the toilet had these nice engravings. =D

we saw this uhh.."lizard". okay uncle jefferey said it was some leaf dragon or somethin. it looks creepy with its protruding scales

monkey! my sis says there's two monkeys in this pic. -.-

its time to climb the bridge. its SUPER DUPER high.

the tree's linked. couldn't take the whole tree's photo lah. THATS how high up we were.

had a BRILLIANT view.

doing what we do best.

check out the size of the leaf. it served as a carpet for my shoe-less foot. lol. ale and i were switching shoes cos hers gave her blisters.

Last night i was at zouk, with elaine and michelle. and elaine's bf and his friends. =D elaine and i each drank a whole jug of vodka cran. =.= after which elaine's bf bought buckets of heineken and we played games. our heads were spinning i seriously couldn't walk straight. omg.

=)

This shall be a boring post.. talking about my day. haha.

Last night I met up with adrian! he's SUCH a cutie. anyway adrian, im terribly sorry!
LOL. i feel so guilty cos firstly, i made him wait for half an hour for me? i was late. as usual. i know.

Secondly, Dear adrian insisted on walking me in though he had work at 8 the next day. SO NICE! he says its after all the 7th month. THANKS AGAIN! But, on his way out, he got lost. he couldn't find his way out and ended up elsewhere. he had to call his friend and bug for directions. cos of that STUPID 15 mins LONG walk. he couldn't find his way out. SORRY ADRIAN!! he's such a dear. how could you still be single? LOL

thats him.

i wanted to try Pepper Lunch since i heard so much abt it. we ate there and ITS YUMMY. really GOOD food. the waiters even "teach" you how to cook your meal and they are very polite too. those who haven't tried, go try k? Ohyah but they sounded like retards when they kept screaming some stuff in jap. hey, its not that im anti-jap but they kept REPEATING and repeating it over and over. LOL.

My puppy's toe bled earlier! my dad cut his nails earlier, it was goin fine but till the last nail. I guess my dad just wanted to get it over and done with. My dad had no experience in cutting dog's nails but at least he knew where to cut. Alfee didn't struggle much neither so i have to say my dad was doing a good job in trimming its nails. But the last toe was trimmed too deep.. alfee quickly ran off at top speed. he didn't look like he was in much pain though. i quickly grabbed some tissue and cleaned the blood off. i could smell the blood as i was doing so. eww. My POOR LITTLE ALFEE!!

he's standing on his hind paws again. i wish i could understand what he's thinking. he's grown so big now. and adorable. haha.

You know how i always have weird dreams right? I dreamt to went to watch pirate of the carribbean ALONE, AGAIN. wth man!

I'm goin for the treetop walk later at bukit timah. haha. with alethea and vanessa. yay. hopefully it'll be fun. i love ale and van. can't wait to catch up with them.

And at night im goin for Phuture with elaine and michelle. and elaine's friends. YAY. but i'd better study tmr.

Im gonna have my lunch now. Ciao!

I have a lack of communication with my brother. Yes, my real brother who shares the same blood as me. I mean, its so hard to just get some tickets from 'im. Instead of myself asking him for the tix, i ask elaine to sms him. LOL. and he replies her sms in a very sweet tone. addressing her as 'babe' and assuring her of the tix. I certainly don't see him replying MY smses in that manner. elaine told me to get the tix from him and immediately i thought, 'oh no that'll be hard'. Although we live in the same house! its THAT bad. I don't even see him at home anymore. he's working during the night, im schooling during the day. So, I get up early while he gets up late. When we do see one another we don't even greet each other. He walks past me as though i'm invisible, and (guiltily) vice versa. We hardly put in any effort to start a conversation. the last time i spoke to 'im was when we both were hungry and were dishing out the fridge for foodie. lol. Other than that, he's always captivated by his computer games and ignore me when I do attempt to talk to him. Sigh, we used to play like crazy twins when we were younger. We were inseparable. I'd never hesitate to show off to my friends, what a great brother I've got and how close i am to him. Things are so different now.




On a lighter note, my sis and "stuffed" alfee into my bag jus now!! HAHA. my mum got so flustered and worried he'll jump out. jason suggested that i bring him to school tmr. lol. he's gone for his 3rd jab so, soon i can bring him outta the house! he can finally make friends. lol

Sorry for not updating sooner!! Anyways, i had this STUPID STRANGE DREAM. (i DREAMT, i repeat, DREAMT) IT WAS JUST A DREAM. that i was doing my big business, OUT IN THE OPEN. wtf rite? LOL. okay not directly out in the open, the toilet door was spoilt, and i left it open apparently. and so i just continued doing it though ppl who were eating nearby, were staring at me anyway. god knows why. HAHAHAHHA. f**king stupid.

Oh yes yes I was a lifesaver the day before!! I saw a girl at sch, her contacts dropped out of her eye, and she was having a painful time trying to wash her already-very-red eye. She tried to avoid my glances but as I was about to leave the toilet, kind me asked : "Do you want the contact lens solution?" Her response was immediate, "OMG YOU HAVE IT WITH YOU??? omg u're such a lifesaver i love you so much!!" LOL.

I dumb-ly deleted my current ringtone : Beyonce - Check On It by accident. And i don't have anymore songs that i can use as a ringtone. LOL. Now i've got no ringtones to use. LOL






Urgh im glad you know what you've done wrong. Or perhaps you don't. Yes, you are so disappointing. You preach at your friend but eventually you don't practise it. Whats become of you? Ugh. however I know i've been very straightforward with you, almost too direct. fine, im sorry for saying hurtful stuff. But, sigh, I don't even know how to trust you again!! I know, im taking it too hard, am i. Noe what, I don't care abt ur future promises. You never keep them anyway. Go ahead and ruin your dignity for all i care~ Ahh fuck, things aren't turnin out fine but hopefully it will be soon.

but when they grow up they're no longer sincere because they would have gone through more than us. we would be disrespected and sadly, easily replaced. WHY??
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anyway, took some pics of my puppy and I. haha


hahaha. i used adobe photoshop to do this earlier. with reference from adobe's Help section. i know, very noob right? =p

My all time favourite comic character is none other than Garfield. I've dilligently and loyally read Jim Davis' comic strips of Garfield since I was a child. I even subscribed to a daily dose of Garfiled comic - via email. tee hee

here's afew of my personal favourite garfield comics.

Thats him and his glutton ways - proven. =D





haha

he's snobbish, fat, lazy and proud. but i love him all the same ;)



garfield always loves christmas and the new year. :)



not forgetting odie, and his silliness =D

My puppy's not home~~~ He was supposed to go for his 3rd jab so he's currently at the pet shop - boarding, they call it. Apparently the shop owners say that he's wouldn't stop barking and is REALLY REALLY noisy. OH NO. They placed him in a play pen thats near the to cashier and they couldn't hear themselves when talking to their customers. He had to be shifted to the inside of the shop. =.="!!! *faints*

LOL my sis said to me earlier. She says when Ana used to be home the puppy would frequently look out for her and yap each time he saw her. Now that she's not around, he's probably saying 'ana where are you fucking hell. come gimme my food u stupid BITCH'. HAHHAHAHA. yup, thats my sis for you.

And yes, we still haven't stopped bitching abt Ana. oops

We talk abt guys being too possessive. When they're in a relationship, that is. I've been told before that, possessivesness stems from the guy having a lack of confidence in himself. Thats why he's so afraid to lose his girlfriend. And that if he felt higher of himself, he wouldn't have to worry abt his girlfriend finding a better catch. He's so darn worried to the extent that he may not allow his girlfriend to talk to guys, touch guys, and may get very agitated when she does. I wonder if thats the right thing to do.

I've a girlfriend who has a bf whose just like that. She's attractive; sporting and beautiful. It is quite inevitable that guys are slobbering at her feet for her number or a date out. Instead of abiding her bf's "rules", she is out playing and having fun/flings with the guys. Apparently this obviously is a failed consequence of possessivesness. The more restricted the girl is, the more she wants to venture out and break free from the cage she's been put in. Especially since the girl is attractive and practically has the ability to turn men into toys; a game for her to play. Men are wrapped around her fingers and right now, she's losing time for her girlfriend too; me.

I sidetrack. I've told her many times to stop her nonsense. But at the same time, whats wrong with doing all that? Thats what youth is all about. Youth's not gonna last forever. Its the time that we're to treasure. Its the time to go out and have fun. Rather than settle down and stick to one loyal boyfriend. Knowing that you've got many guys having you on their thoughts, you ought to be proud of yourself and cherishing that gift you've been blessed with. =)

to that girlfriend (i believe you know its you) : Babe, do what you think is right. I don't blame you for searching for the right one. I'm behind you yah. Looking forward to hanging out with you again! You understand me best. haha =)

My maid, Analie has transferred to another home. My parents didn't like her due to her incompetence and laziness. She's always telling lies not doing her work. As in, she'll not do the housework assigned and she'll lie through her teeth saying that she has. She has her own mobile phone too and either she's always on the line, or she's blasting her music via her hp. -.-

And for those who haven't heard, she lost our brand new bicycle. My dad bought it for less then A DAY. She rode it out the next day and it went missing. ugh

But I still felt really sad for her when she was asked to leave. 1 reason being because, she was sorta chased away cos her employees didn't like her. Second reason is cos she can't look after the puppy she loves as much as I love. Alfie has his fur groomed everyday single day, ears cleaned and eyes too, all by her. She took the patience to clean his mouth after every meal. It wasn't just a chore for her, she did it out of pure love for the puppy. She wouldn't even grumble or complain if the puppy were to urinate on her bed I believe.

Sadly, I didn't even say bye to her. I forgot she was leaving today. I smsed her this : hey ana i forgot to say bye to you. hope u find it enjoyable working at your new employer's house. :)

she replied me this which sorta crumpled my heart up abit :

Thanks alot kel. U too hope ur new maid is good. . . And can handle Alfie properly . . . . I will do my best to my new employer and can stay longer so that ur father wont look down on me so badly because he say to me b4 1 week or 1 month my employer will send me home. im quite sad. Life must go on. Study hard so that u acheive ur goal k. Keep up the good work. Thanks alot again

=(

Have you ever got off the train trying to look all cool and feeling: hey, you're looking great today cos you have on, the brand new stiletto heels you recently splurged your pay on. You strut toward the exit with confidence and your head up. But then, a stranger who's not too clear of where she/he's heading almost bumps into you. You freak out and can't walk straight for a minute there. The whole, earlier image of composure and uhh, coolness is ruined!! It happens to me all the time. haha.

Update update.

I met up with Charmaine, the best friend ytd nite for dinner at the French Stall. The food is yummilicious. I had dory fillet something. Char's was chicken leg on a stack of grated potatoes. her potato strips were yummier than my mashed potato they tasted weird. hmph.


lookk, can't-wait-to-eat expression is pinned onto our faces =p

thats my dessert! its sorta an ice cream puff. the menu says its 'large ice cream............' haha. sinful, i know

Today I met Diana to shop for glenn's bday gift. I bumped into samantha and shoon! haha. Anyway, Diana ended up not getting anything for glenn in the end. yet. lol, cos 1, half the time we were shopping for our own stuff. 2, she couldn't decide on what to get. Everything didn't seem appropriate enough since glenn's her best guy friend. Its real tough to get a guy a gift! I bought a jacket. Its darn green in colour. haha. and i bought a cute pencil. Ohyah diana brought the Garfield 2 pencil for me. ITS HUGE. bout, 30cm? maybe i should use it in school........ hahah

Diana and I. The best girlfriend ever in the whole world. I love her so so much.

lol. We were at PS and we saw the World's Largest Chocolate. cool!

look at the dogs' pictures! O_O interesting huh? the dog on the bag looks JUST LIKE elaine's dog. diana and i kept laughing when i fished out my cam and started comparing the photo from my cam to the bag. the woman at the pushcart grew suspicious and repeatedly glanced at me. lol. So, i showed the woman the picture on my cam. she herself then kept laughing and laughing too. ahahhaha

we went back after shopping. i studied for a while. at 10pm we headed down to pasir ris to attend glenn's bday bbq.

=.= wads with his smile. lol

i took their slippers instead of their faces. =p diana got so amused she couldnt' stop laughing HAHAH.

finally, a decent picture.

glenn is gross. he dipped that rice cube into Tiger beer and ate it. EWWWW

AHAHAHHA. shall blog abt what happened ytd in school. Sorry S5 for the late update, i was too lazy to blog abt the spidery event last night.

Well, Sharlene and I bought ice soursop jelly in sch ytd and it was infected!!! It was infected with, supposedly fungus, so we say. It had white spots all over the jelly. Apparently when I returned it to the aunty at the shop, she explained that it was sugar. HAHA. sugar that floated to the top of the jelly. I felt really foolish. =x

We proceded with our meal. We were chatting happily, and then, Shuzhen suddenly had this really appalled and shocked look. She pointed to me and exclaimed 'there's a spider in kel's hair!!'. Sharlene and I paused, and then in unision, we SCREAMED at the top our lungs. LOL. It was a YELLOW spider! ewwwwwww. The next thing we did was unimaginable. I kinda shoved my head toward Sharlene cos she seated next to me. But as expected she screamed and ran off. LOLOL. So I stood up and got off my seat and jumped up and down screaming 'GET IT OFF MEE!!!' HAHAHA. so hilarious. but EMBARESSING. I recall looking around and noticed almost a quarter of the people in food court staring at us. OMFG. Finally the spider disappeared so, phew~

We were about to leave the food court. But then it appeared in yinying's hair as we were doing so!! I saw something yellow in her hair and I totally started to freak out. I gaped widely and muttered 'OH MY GAWD' looking at yinying. She freaked too. HAHAHAH. She screamed(at the same food court) and we all quickly whacked the spider off. HAHA. as soon as it hit the ground we all all heaved a sigh of relief. and wanted to let it crawl away. But, yinying in the mean time "recovered" from her shock and when she spotted the yellow spider on the floor, she STOMPED SUPER HARD on it. Its death is definite. LOL

We had our discussion cafe persentation earlier. Oh gawd it was shitty. Melinda had something bad to say about EVERYTHING we said. She had nothing good to say abt Cindy's group neither. STUPID FUCKED UP CRS SUCKS. Everyone's gotta agree to that.

My puppy keeps barking like mad now. At EVERY mintue! No, its not hungry.. Its just too darn pampered and it wants our attention 24-7 now... Its bark is so shrill/loud/high pitched/continous. So f**king irritating...

Today noor and I stayed in school to read almost every post of MOT, it was seriously amusing. Noor and I couldn't stop laughing our ass off. After which on the way home, the thoughts of those ahlians/bengs wanna-be never left my mind. I found myself trying to pinpoint practically everyone I saw on the street, hoping to be able to identify a trait and label him/her as a twit. LOLOL!!

Anyway, on the train I couldn't help but feel revolted by a woman onboard. She was with her daughter, husband and another man; probably her brother.

As soon as she entered the train with her family, she shouted very loudly 'Come here!' to her daughter. when her daughter hasn't exactly strolled far away from her such that she had to raise her voice. After which, she grabbed her daughter and attempted to hug her. Puh-lease, who in her right mind would want to hug someone who just embarressed her in a public place by commanding her to approach like she's some kinda dog?

And, the woman kept getting annoyed by her husband and would glare at her hubby as soon as he said ANYTHING, or made ANY comment. Even when she was on the phone, she'd continue glaring at her hubby when he said anything. Oh god, give him a break will she? A man, not allowed to say anything? Makes no sense.

Finally, she wanted to return the mobile phone to her brother, but somehow the phone accidentally dropped and hit the ground with a really loud noise. Almost everyone turned to look. The woman, instead of apologising her to brother for dropping his mobile phone, she not only didn't even bother to pick up the phone. She turned to glare at her husband(again) as though it was his fault that it dropped at all. =.= I don't get it~ lol

I watched Pirates - Dead Man's Chest with nicholas earlier!! Its so entertaining, yes yes. Its really funny..its a must watch. Shan't reveal anything since I know everyone's gonna catch it. hehe. I can however, reveal that there'll b a continuation, but I think I was one of the last to find that out, so....

At cineleisure there was stand-up cardboard cut-outs of the twelve finalists of Sg Idol. LOL

nic went high over Paul's cardboard cut-out. nic was paul's ex classmate at cat high. haha

i don't even watch sg idol or know who this is, but i'm convinced he's the cutest amongest the guys HAHA. i pretended to b his fanatic fan LOL